When I graduated from college, I was glad to be done with books and research and studying. But four years after, when I was pregnant with our first child, I found myself devouring books again, but this time with excitement and eagerness. I found myself, yet again, being a student… a student of my children.

For the first time last week, I played NBA on the PS3. I stayed away from it all these years because the buttons just looked so complicated. But my son Ryan persisted, and I found myself enjoying the game with him.

The older my children get, the more I realize I need to spend time to know them and to know about them. Not only do I need to study how they develop physiologically, but I need to understand their temperaments and their individual preferences. I need to learn what motivates them and what discourages them. I need to learn to play the games they play and sing the songs they sing. I need to get help from other parents who can help me train and discipline my children.

I wished they had Motherhood 101 in college. I didn’t realize that I had so much more to learn until I became a mom. I am glad that there are so many resources available to us now… books, blogs, parenting seminars… they are easily accessible. And spend a lot, lot, lot of time with our kids so we can discover the person they are and are becoming. If we want to be effective in what we do, we should never stop learning and getting to know our kids.

Facebook Comments


  1. I could not agree more , Just Last night we ate dinner together, cleaned it up, and horsed around a bit together, then we cleaned their bath room together. Anne Marie scrubbed the tub, Laura scrubbed the sink and floor, Steven Grabbed supplies, and I showed them what to do and whipped the floor clean. Then to finish out the night it was a sleep over in Daddy’s room with a good hardy boys movie , all 3 were glued to the screen. Prayer and then sleepy time!
    They Love the Evening with daddy…. Sometimes its discipline, some times it’s fun and games some times it’s both. All the time we are learning and God is right in the middle of it All!

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *